Become Someone Who Is Truly Chosen
Private, identity-level coaching for women and men ready to stop chasing avoidant love, heal anxious patterns, and build secure relationships from the inside out.
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You’ve done everything you can to make love work.
You give more.
You care more.
You try harder.
And still, something feels off.
You may find yourself:
Overthinking texts and conversations
Chasing emotional closeness
Feeling like you’re always the one holding the relationship together
Attracting partners who are distant, avoidant, or inconsistent
Secretly wondering why love feels so hard
You’re successful, capable, and strong in so many areas of life.
But in love, you feel anxious, unchosen, or emotionally alone.
It doesn’t have to stay that way.
I don’t just teach this. I lived it.
In the first year of my marriage, my husband and I were on the brink of divorce.
He shut down for three months, and I felt anxious, devastated, and completely alone.
We were stuck in a classic anxious-avoidant dynamic- and I didn’t even know it yet.
Learning about attachment, emotional safety, and nervous system healing didn’t just save our relationship. It transformed it.
Today, we have a deeply secure partnership, a family, and a shared creative life together.
This is the work I now guide my clients through every day.
Secure love begins with a secure identity.
Secure love isn’t about finding the perfect partner.
It’s about becoming a secure person.
When your identity shifts:
Your nervous system calms
Your standards rise
Your communication changes
Your relationships transform
You stop chasing love…
and start becoming someone who is naturally chosen.
Chosen: Private 1:1 Coaching
CHOSEN is my private coaching container designed for people who are ready for deep, identity-level transformation.
This is not surface-level dating advice.
This is the work of becoming someone who:
Feels emotionally safe within themselves
No longer chases avoidant love
Attracts secure, committed partnership
Lives with clarity, confidence, and self-trust
WHO THIS WORK IS FOR
This is for you if…
You’re tired of chasing emotionally unavailable partners
You feel stuck in anxious or avoidant patterns
You’re strong and capable, but exhausted in love
You want a secure relationship, not just another situationship
You’re ready for real transformation, not more quick fixes
Inside the CHOSEN container:
Private one-on-one coaching sessions
Personalized emotional and relational guidance
Attachment and nervous system healing work
Identity-level transformation
Communication and relationship strategy
Ongoing support between sessions (if included)
Coaching Containers
3-month container
For those ready to build a secure foundation.
6-month container
For deeper integration and relationship transformation.
12-month container
For full identity embodiment and long-term partnership support.
Investment details shared during your application call.
What People Are Saying
“Working with Jenn has been a complete game changer for my marriage and my entire life.”
— David
“When I started this work with Jenn I was a shell… now I have fallen completely in love with myself and my life.”
— Jenny
If nothing changes, the pattern repeats.
You’ll keep:
Overgiving
Overthinking
Chasing closeness
Attracting the same dynamics in different bodies
Not because you’re broken.
But because your identity and nervous system haven’t shifted yet.
This work changes that.
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My work blends psychological depth with forward-focused coaching.
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Many of my clients are. We focus first on your security and identity.
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Yes, on a limited basis, once the individual foundation is in place.