Meet Jenn Wolfe
I help people become someone who is truly chosen.
Coach. Speaker. Relationship guide.
And someone who once almost lost her marriage in year one.
Jenn’s Story
In the first year of my marriage, my husband and I were on the brink of divorce.
He shut down emotionally for three months.
I felt anxious, devastated, and completely alone.
We were stuck in a classic anxious–avoidant dynamic- and I didn’t even know what that meant yet.
I just knew love felt harder than it should.
That season forced me to go deeper than surface-level advice. I began studying attachment, emotional safety, nervous system healing, and the deeper identity patterns that shape our relationships.
Slowly, everything began to change.
Not just in our marriage, but in me.
Today, my husband and I have a deeply secure partnership, a family we love, and a shared creative life through our film production company.
We didn’t just “fix” our relationship.
We transformed the identity patterns that were driving it.
That transformation became the foundation of my work.
Now, I help high-achieving women and men who are stuck in anxious or avoidant dynamics become secure, chosen, and deeply aligned in love and life.
My Background
Master’s Degree in Counseling Psychology
Training in trauma-informed life coaching
Years of private coaching with individuals and couples
Speaker and relationship educator
Co-founder of a film production company with global distribution
But more than any credential, my greatest qualification is that I’ve walked this path myself.
What I believe
I believe secure love doesn’t start with the right partner.
It starts with the right identity.
When you become someone who:
Feels safe in their own body
Stops abandoning themselves
Communicates with clarity and self-respect
…your relationships begin to change naturally.
This is the heart of my work.